Many of you did some traveling over the holiday break. I wanted to take a moment to talk about what you might do after the traveling to help solidify the memoires and experience for your children.
I often hear parents say, ”They won’t remember the trip.” Or, “They are too young to get anything out of it.” Many parents use these as reasons NOT to travel with children. There is great value in a young child experiencing anything. Absolutely everything can be a teaching moment. And more experiences – especially more diverse experiences – have an immense impact on shaping a child’s development. And whether or not they remember the trip, well, that depends on you. Photographs and histories are critical in creating a child’s past. Renowned child psychologist Dr. Kenneth Condrell worked with Nancy O’Dell on a book about just this. O’Dell’s book, Full of Love “…explores the power of the family photo album to create confident, secure, happy kids. “ O’Dell is a self-admitted scrapbooker, and she has partnered with scrapbooking company Creative Memories to create her own line of products. However, recording the events of a trip or special event doesn’t have to be a daunting experience! You don’t even have tp take on a whole scrapbook. Here’s my take on the simple – only three simple steps. Of course, you could make this as elaborate as you like, but it’s still only three steps!
1. Take a few of the favorite photos from the trip, and place them on a sheet of paper.
2. Have your child tell you their memories of the trip. They can be based on the pictures or not. And you can write each family member’s version as well if you like.
3. Take it to be laminated, put it in an album or scrapbook, or even frame it if you like.

After that, all you need to do is talk about it as often as possible. The event will absolutely be remembered and they will definitely get something out of it! Here’s one of ours. The kids talk about it and make the connections to other events in their lives as well. As many of you will likely be doing some traveling over the coming months, perhaps you can start a new tradition with your child and help them to create and remember their own histories.
Check out the links for Dr. Condrell, Nany O’Dell’s book Full of Love, and Creative Moments.
Best,
Melanie
http://www.drcondrell.com/index.php
http://www.nancyodell.com/full-of-love-book.asp
http://www.creativememories.com/